Earth has thousands years of existence, and the people who have passed on it formed societies, those endured generations and these in turn, build what we call world.

When I started my career as bio-decoder of genealogical trees I started investigating everything about my ancestors; by doing these investigations with my parents, the sense of everything changed, when listened their life’s story, I understood why do I think, feel and act the way I do.

Observing our parents represents taking consciousness of how the world has been and how’s today; the reality is that there’s more of the same, because we keep living in a society that repeats patterns, the difference relies in the generational space – time.

When my mother talked to me about her mother, she told me that she barely knew her because she was more aware of her house, trying to raise her eight children; and my mother’s father was an absent figure because he used to disappear to go and get drunk. Regarding my father, he doesn’t remember any kind of relationship with his mother due to the constant confrontation he felt towards her; my father’s father, was a man who was always worried about his family and someone who worked very hard to support it.

My family trees come from a working middle class, very conditioned to work so they could be able to eat, survive and live; but words like success were never mentioned as possibilities, abundance wasn’t mentioned as part of the human’s nature; of course, self-love wasn’t a real matter, also it was impossible to trust and follow a dream. This represented to remain on a system where they as children had to accomplish a role, go to school so one day they could work as hard as the father, or they could stay at home as their mother taught them.

“Only an individual who’s not trapped
in the society, can influence it in a fundamental way.”

Jiddu Krishnumarti

We have been thousands of generations anchored in that same system, which is educated by a memory of “fear of not existing” and this has made the human beings look for weapons based on the competition: “how to be the best so the others can’t have more than me”; where the others are mistaken in relation to my beliefs and I prefer to attack them for this reason; where the other is guilty of how I feel; where the other is responsible of my happiness because everything in this life is very difficult and there’s no place for dreams, dreams that I don’t even dare to find; all this relates to our fear of not existing because if we believe in ourselves, we’ll resonate with the freedom of being and we’ll be completely detached from fear, but to the systemic unconscious to which we’re inevitably united to, represents not to be recognized for being different to what’s known and experienced.

  • We function in a society that seems to be perfect because it makes itself believe that it is, because for generations it has been functional for some, manipulate our freedom to preserve the created beliefs of other people who couldn’t feel free either.
  • We function in a society that keeps us attached, because as long as we depend of the system, we are better consumers; that’s why they reward us with labels like: “VIP customers” to make us believe we are the best, when in reality that system is making us slaves of its condition.
  • We function in a society that sells us heart shaped ornaments one day every year to celebrate what’s very hard to reach: the love of the other; because if we were guided to appreciate our self-love, the one existing every day, there wouldn’t be any sense in consuming something that already experiences in itself.
  • We function in a society that unconsciously victimizes us, so we never make ourselves responsibles of our own causes; this impede us from changing and we remain ourselves in a colective hypnosis that challenges our duality and puts in doubt the notion of unity.
  • We function in a society that needs us to believe in some God that punishes, conditions and condemns us, so we keep spending money and we buy ourselves a “little piece of heaven, because you and me are sinners, so we need forgiveness obtained by regret”; when the real God is not looking for fans, is looking for believers.
  • We function in a society that still forces the children to learn the History that happened 100 years ago in order to feel better patriots; thus the system ruling us can earn more followers that believe blindly on it, so that system can win more power, making us believe we live in a democracy.

We have functioned until now because when we feel we’re achieving the rules that society demands, we believe we have everything under control, and remember that control’s a strategy of our ego that makes us think we have the power over everything, a power we can’t loose because it’s very important “being better than everyone.”

We are still functioning in a dysfunctional society because everything that sells, says and arguments is a momentary illusion, that’s why this conditioning system doesn’t benefit if you connect with your present, because it wants you to be submited to your past so you can desperately yearn the future that’s offering you, thus, you won’t feel any option left than take it; the more asleep we are, the more we’ll be in love of this system that pushes us away from ourselves; the key is in remembering that the path to be oneself, is in breaking all the lies we have been told we are.

Work on yourself, Shary ChavLó ∞