One of the ideas that my parents inherited me in relation to abundance was that I had to study a career and belong to a company that could give me an economic stability; so in the future, I could have a retirement; then you can imagine the surprise they had when I told them that I was going to leave my job in order to go after my purpose as a spiritual coach; despite my father has always been of the idea that no matter what you do in life as long as you’re happy, deep inside him is the fear of not feeling the stability that only a job can give you. 

Starting my career as a coach made me face many things; among them, putting a price to my therapies, workshops and services; since we were children we’ve been lead to believe that the concept of spirituality is based on a religion so we can put God in a merciful place, and deep inside our unconsciousness, we believe that mercy is  related to poverty; therefore, if it’s not through a religious tithe, we believe that professions related with the divine energy are against the economic wellness; ‘cause we’ve believed that money has nothing to do with God and only humans are capable of generating it. 

One of the services I love and like to offer the most is channelling angelical energy; the people who know me, know that channeling the energy means like feeling myself at home ‘cause I consider that diposing myself to understand universal energy is one the best things I can do; nonetheless, it has been a profession that has challenged my beliefs related to money, to the point that I’ve attracted people that have questioned me the price of my services and who assure that God doesn’t charge any money to attend; of course, in that moment, those situations confirmed me, the limited relationship I had with money. 

One of the most common programming we have as human beings is the thought based on “it’s impossible”; this idea that’s focused on lacking, is the inheritance of our family, cultural and social system and it’s supported in the idea that the more sacrifice we do, the greater the possibility of being abundant will be; and this belief we have about fighting for something, conditions our capacity to create enriching experiences. 

The human mind sends a lot of thoughts to us per day; the air we breathe enters in huge amounts, so our lungs can have enough oxygen; you’re always accompanied by a very special person although you don’t have contact with him or her, s/he is the only one who can show you how abundant you are; the abundance and scarcity are in the same line but each one of them resonates different and only the self-responsability will make us decide what to choose and most of all, what to manifest. 

Remember that we experience a dual world where’s indispensable to know the polarities that hold us, but when we decide to separate our mind, automatically we believe that we were born to be deprived, ‘cause since we were children we have been taught how to be, believing in the outside is the abundance so we can feel happy; is the love that’ll accompany us forever, is the success that’ll help us obtain the recognition from the others but those positionings, make us dissociate from ourselves and when there’s self-abandonment, there’s nothing. 

“Be grateful for what you have, you’ll end up having more, if you concentrate on what you don’t have, you’ll never, ever have enough.”

Oprah Winfrey.

When we’re in a relationship we’re always thinking that we want more from the other person, that we need to change him or her in order to have the man or woman we’ve always wanted next to us, but that implies to create a relationship based on scarcity instead of creating it from the abundance that can exist between both of us; at work we’re more worried to belong in a company although that implies to give up to our self-happiness believing that earning a monthly salary means to have a purchased happiness, and misery at work  is the maximum representation of a lacking mind, thinking in the future and blaming the past is rejecting the dissatisfaction of the present  that we don’t want to attend and be in the absence of here and now, is condemning ourselves to live in scarcity. 

I want to tell you that abundance isn’t related to money like we’ve believed, neither is related to a profession that enslave us just because we have a salary; money is an energetic flow that comes from a source where everything is abundant and where scarcity doesn’t exist, but we have created a relationship with it based on enmity that has increased over the years and in order to have it in our lives, we need to detach from it, so we can have it in an abundant and constant rhythm but when there are thoughts about poverty related to money, our personal power turns dependent and the more co-dependency there is, the more will be the abandonment of our health, relationships, family, environment and in that way, everything will turn into lacking; so before your mind makes you believe that everything is going “to finish” dispose yourself to trust that what you have is what you need to fully experience  life, ‘cause you’re as abundant as anyone else in this planet, but if you don’t feel worthy of receiving abundance, then, you’ll always judge it as lacking ‘cause you don’t have more of what you desire; therefore, your mind will insist on giving you the power to believe that you don’t have enough and from there you’ll create your experiences; but in reality, the abundance it’s not something you obtain; it’s something you’ve always been. 

You’re abundant, Shary ChavLó ∞