My paternal family lived conditioned by the money issue; my great grandparents created a tamale business in Mexico city and all the money that was collected, they decided to keep it in a mattress due to the absence of banks and with a deep fear of lacking; my maternal family had the same story, my grandparents were dedicated to different jobs; on one hand my grandmother was dedicated to the household chores and on the other hand, my grandfather was dedicated to working the land but both of them with the same lacking beliefs about there’s not enough money.

When I grew up, I did it with the typical conditionings about there’s not enough money and everything is more and more expensive, you can imagine that when I had to ask my parents for some money I felt a huge guilt ‘cause the merit I felt towards money was null; have in mind that the universe you live in, has a natural vibration of 432 hz; the musical instruments are tuned to that frequency, while our voice reaches 180 to 255 hz; this means that everytime we speak or express we align ourselves to a universal frequency that helps us create what we decree. 

You’ll understand that words have an impact in your unconscious, in your mind and in your vibration; this means that everytime you express something good or wrong, those words travel within a universal frequency; therefore, you create them in your reality; have in mind that your co-creation in the world is very important, this means that as long as you vibrate in a high frequency, you help that the energy of the Universe rise up in order to help you create healthy experiences focused in love. 

Many of us grew up under conditionings where money wasn’t enough and where love didn’t exist, those beliefs turned into decrees, have prevailed in a cultural, social and family level within a system that conscious or unconsciously governs us and the way we materialize it, occurs when our experiences look the same; the same way, words resonate in our emotions ‘cause our brain produces them to express them and automatically make an impact in our emotional states ‘cause everything resonates as one. 

Words are frequencies we choose to resonate with, and from them we materialize our existence, also are the ones who’ll help us to define and create our experiences; they’re the ones who are going to help us free or condemn our lives. Why are there words that can hurt us? ‘Cause the words that the other tells us consist on the concepts we already have about ourselves and due to that lack of self-love we feel, we’re attracted by the power and energy of our beliefs turned into decrees related to: I’m not good enough for him or her, I’m not good at that, I don’t have any luck in love, I don’t have enough money, I don’t have a friendly face that’s why nobody wants to be with me. 

“Words have the power to both destroy or heal, When the words are both true and kind, they can change the world.”

Buddha.

One of the highest lessons that words teach us is to honour the emptiness existing among them that’s called silence; the one that invites us to reflect before expressing any decree or throw wrong words towards others; have in mind that everything you say to the others, you’re telling the same to yourself ‘cause in the Universe where everything resonates equal, words create a boomerang vibe; this means that everything expands in a dimensional wave and returns to the source that created it with the same impact or even harder. 

When we’re in a self-speech or in a conversation with the others, the ego always wants to be the first to give an opinion ‘cause it likes to positionate itself and has the need to win a conversation either to convince you that what you want is not possible or to tell the other person how bad s/he is; so before you react and put your control in words let yourself feel without judging how you feel and if your expressions won’t contribute better than your silence, choose to shut down your ego and observe the situation as a lesson that allows you to see the places where you’ve stopped loving. 

Have you ever thought about what you think of happiness, self-love and abundance; maybe everyday you unconsciously decree with these intentions; I hate my job, I got tired, I’m not happy, nobody loves me and those words that you don’t feel conscious about, travel through all your body, get to your memory, remain in your soul and stay in your brain as a program in order to push you to create experiences with that frequency; therefore, give yourself the opportunity to reactivate your inner-conversation from love, give yourself the opportunity of being happy ‘cause that’s your right, see as the best option to love yourself before hoping that someone can love you and reconcile with those beliefs that make you say that you’re not abundant, ‘cause if something you have to be clear on, is that the way you talk to yourself is and will be the information with which the Universe will attend everything you say to it.

I love myself, I love you, 

Shary ChavLó ∞