We belong to a world that many times seems to be unfair, but you know something? It’s not the Universe, God, energy, nature etc., who sends us unfair experiences as a punishment, it’s the resonance in which we choose to live and in that way, learn.

What happens to the people with this wound is that they were children that had unloving and strict parents, maybe neither of them were capable to show his or her feelings to the child; turning into a rigid person in his/her adult life.

When I worked for a company, I remember one of my bosses was always impeccable from the way of dressing, walking and expressing himself; someone who always wanted everything to be flawless and liked that every little detail be perfectly clear and precise and didn’t give margin to his own errors and much less to others, because one of the greatest fears of the people with the injustice wound, is to be mistaken.

People with this wound are very demanding with themselves and that’s why it’s hard for them to relate with emotions and pleasure because they think it’s unfair for them to be capable of feeling.

People with this wound, will do anything possible to attract situations that seem unfair, it’ll be complicated for them to ask for help because everything must be perfect and at the same time that situation will seem unfair for them.

Who we are and what we do
must be the source of our well-being.

Lise Bourbeau.

I want you to understand that we’ll always feel attracted to people that uncosciously touches our wounds, thus, we decided to come to the world with parents with the same wounds as us because we chose to resonate with equal people to feel we belong.

Please if you notice this wound within you, don’t condemn yourself and don’t avoid feeling your emotions because remember that they were given to you to be felt and not evaded, just hug and free yourself of that unnecessary fear of being wrong, remember, you are a human being and mistakes are part of our essence because thanks to them we learn and know how to choose a better way.

When you see these wounds that remain in you, compassionately observe them from another place because if you look at them carefully, you’ll understand that we all have been unfair with others, we’ve rejected situations and people, everyone at some point have chosen abandonment and everyone unconsciously have humiliated and wanted to control what’s alien to us, because we are an equal.

If you realize, no one in this planet is saved of feeling hurt, but remember it’s not about blaming others for hurting us, but of making us responsibles of us because we choose third parties to open or remind us wounds of the past; the most important thing is to make consciousness and with that same awareness be able to forgive and accept ourselves.

If you notice this wound within you, choose to be open to all possibilities and start to honor the person you are and daily throw this words so they fall on you: “It’s safe for me to feel my emotions because thanks to them I can embrace and reconcile with myself, I recognize I deserve a life full of pleasure and happiness, I have the security that those around me, accept and love me as I do to them, I’m a very lucky and blessed being because I have the divine right to manifest everything I want, I comprehend there is enough for all and also for me, so with confidence I believe that everything that corresponds to me, will be given in the right moment”

You’re unique,
Shary ChavLó ∞