Every human cell has an unconscious story that’s made thanks to our parents union, and theirs thanks to their parents union as well, in that way is built what we know as the biological chain.

Everything we are is product of the repetition of different patterns that are saved in the family history, and by consequence we learn them in our childhood. All those emotions, attitudes and repetitions can never be broken but we can transcend them and transform them making self-consciousness of their existence so in that way, we can achieve a positive change in our lives.

After all, we are the cause of an unconscious repetition that programs us before we are conceived because we are a life’s design. It’s important for you to know that we all keep loyalties in a familiar, social and cultural unconscious and we do it, because like I’ve said: we’re social beings so we need to feel included within an implicit system, hence, those loyalties represent our solidarity with the enviroment and of course, with our family nest.

Until you don’t become aware what you carry in your unconscious

this last one will manage your life and you’ll call it fate

Carl G. Jung

Human beings are govern by an unconscious inherited by our parents, it doesn’t mean our parents were good or bad, it means they gave us this structure to be able to defend ourselves from life.

What happens when a woman doesn’t find the correct couple? Possibly because her mother never stop telling her that she had to be careful with men because all of them were the same, because she learned from her father who always cheated on her mother, and that belief caused men were looked as dishonest by nature in the familiar unconscious. What happens with this daughter or grandaughter? Unconsciously she believe she’s her mother or her grandmother, and today, this loyalty repetition is sealed on her so as on her family tree?

Like I said, we are ruled by an unconscious, thus, our behavior will be domitated by it, because our unconscious doesn’t define the space-time in which is living, that means, it always will repeat the facts as a scratched disk until we become self-aware of those loyalties or patterns so we can be able to transcend them or transform them in a different story.

Please avoid entering in that painful or agressive judgment against your story because the only thing you’ll generate is you’ll become your own victim, and in the end, it will provoke that you become your own agressor, because you’ll keep repeating that system that doesn’t belong to you anymore.

What we need is stop justifying that system we belong to, because we’ll always try to put explanations to the actions, the words, and the situations in order to affirm and satisfy those loyalties we carry and are the reason why we still hipnotized.

I want to tell you that all our loyalties can be transcended as long as we’re willing to do it and stop repeating those imposed stories by the different bonds we feel connected to.

From today, allow yourself to observe you and see all those projections you use to define the world, there are your unconscious beliefs, fears and frustrations, and of course, those secret fidelities that you’ve naively decided to repeat.

Always remember that posibilities to transcend those chains you felt in love with are within you; it’s not about waiting for the solution to come from outside, it’s about watching everything from yourself because only you are responsible on how those projections affect your life, just remember that story you think defines you, the only thing that has done is becoming you, your life’s best teacher.

We are free,
Shary ChavLó ∞