Since I have memory, human beings have lived in this endless war among who is the best, women or men.

Today we are in a totally different century where women haven’t stopped demanding the same rights as men, to finally be seen as equals.

We are equals if we see it from a human point of view, we are all the same because we are an existence with thoughts, emotions, insecurities, strenghts and weaknesses, nevertheless, what makes us different is the role we are playing on this earth, if we see it from an archaic perspective men were made to defend their territory and do everything in their power to secure that structure stay safe and women were made to protect the interior of that territory giving love so that structure can prevail.

We are unequal because we cannot have the same physical abilities as men, we are unequal because men don’t have the same emotional contact as women, we are unequal because we don’t accomplish the same role, we are unequal because men contribute to the creation of life an we receive it so we can give life, nonetheless, this doesn’t mean that we don’t have the same possibilities to achieve and establish any accomplishment with the outside world.

Men don’t have equality benefits either.
When they get free of the gender stereotypes,
things will change for women as a natural consequence.

Emma Watson.

If we want equality we have to start by breaking all those tight schemes where boys wear blue and girls wear pink, where men pay and women don’t; our parents generations had that system ingrained, were they percieved women as the slaves of the kitchen and men as dependant of the exterior, so I ask myself: in which moment did they help us to integrate each other?, how can we believe in equality if inside our home we couldn’t give an opinion because we were just kids?

When I talked you about children I told you that our first contact with the world comes from our parents and they were the ones who taught us to play with dolls and cars teaching us that was correct and real, but if you have decided to form a family, today is the moment to change all those beliefs wrapped with prejudice that only adults have and from there we’ll start the real change where boys and girls deserve the same respect and we’ll understand that nothing makes us different, just that untenable belief we have that some are from venus and others from mars, and we don’t even know why, as far as I know both are from the same planet called earth.

Women: please stop judging men believing all of them are the same and that all of them want to take us to bed, we need to understand that our nature is to perpetuate the species and that demands men have an active sexuality, but that doesn’t mean we as women are not as sexual as them because we need the same carnal encounter to create life, the conflict shows when we believe that if we experience our sexuality we’ll be seen as “whores”, and that, comes from a polarity but not from unity, remember that sexuality was created to live and enjoy with high awareness, so please stop resonating on that vibration that brings more of the same, remember that they are as humans as your father independently of the relationship or image you have built of him.

Men: please stop believing that all women are crazy and intense, because that impede us from breaking our own femenine system, a system that’s beneath faith where we are only made to be ladies on the table and wild in bed, that prevents us from our own growth and empowerment, because all the memory of that colective unconscious is what we need to break so it can no longer be translated in our truth, so please help us to contribute to that transformation that keeps affecting all of us, remember we are all humans as your mother independently of the relationship or image you have built of her.

Have in mind that all of us, both men and women have the same energies within us, a femenine and a masculine, one that creates and the other one that materilizes that creation, that’s why, none can’t exist without the other.

I ask you from now on, to start looking at each other as humans, without any need of competing on who is the best, just keep in mind that our roles on this earth are different so let’s start using them in a conscious way taking both energies by the hand, because if we chose to be born like this, is to use it with love understanding that nothing separates us, in the end, we’ll always need the other one for our own self-knowledge independently of the gender, because is not about what happen with he or she it’s about what happen with you.

I’ve spoken many times about God, the universe, the energy, I’ve told you that for him or for her judgment doesn’t exist, much less he doesn’t look at us as men, women or gender, because that universe that creates everything, knows itself as a universal energy without defining himself for having a penis or a vagina, that energy created you with such love that even if you were woman or man, he knew that you’ll be so important and special as everything living in this existence, and I’m sure you came to this world to bring something wonderful no matter how you look, you just need to believe it and understand that you came here to shine.

I’m like you,
Shary ChavLó ∞