2017 was full of events that shook the world, of course including all those personal situations each one of us had to face, and today, we start by becoming aware of everything that happened, maybe some people left, others arrived, events changed the path we thought we were destinated to take, thus giving thanks to that old year we are leaving behind and saying hello to the one that’s about to begin.

When we’re ready to do the countdown, waiting for midnight to welcome a new year, we create those 12 new year’s commandments we promise ourselves to do for the next months.

If you realize, most of these commandments are based on the lack we feel in our lives, so we promise ourselves: to finally loose weight, save some money, buy or do things we’ve never had or done before, find a couple, etc; and with lack I mean all those commandments are based on a missing vibration of what we don’t have and we connect from the side of the need.

Welcome a new year and the new
opportunity for us to make things right.

Oprah Winfrey.

Remember the true aim of doing commandments is to do a commitment with oneself and to start with those agreements we need to understand why we want them and what’s the reason why we look for them year after year and until now, we haven’t been able to accomplish, we need to ask ourselves: what are we going to do different this time?

If you are a person who’s commited on loosing weight, you must ask yourself: which is my resistance with myself that I’m not able to get it?, why do I want to loose weight? Have in mind that when we resist to something, that thing will persist in our life until we can reconcile with it, so if you constantly reject your body you need to accept it because that requires you to look at it and assume the responsability of why you allowed yourself to neglect it, also understand what kind of excuses you give to yourself to not achieve your goal, it’s possibly because you don’t have time to take care of it, because you don’t like to eat healthy or because of laziness, when you enter in that process of honesty with yourself, then, you’ll find the best method to make it happen.

If you are a person whose purpose is saving money because there’s never enough, you must ask yourself: what kind of relationship I’m deciding to have with money?, why do I keep denying the entrance of abundance in my life? Remember in the universe you live in, everything is abundant so the lack you imagine doesn’t exist, it’s just a matter of connecting with it from your free will.

If you are a person who wants to travel, start by asking yourself: where to?, in how much time will you be in that destination? Have in mind that when we want something we have to be specific enough about why we want it, how we want it, and where will take us what we’re asking for, stop worrying in how you will do it, the same path will give you the tools to make it real.

If you are a person who’s looking for a partner and you commit with yourself to find someone next year, you must ask yourself: what for do I want a partner?, are you ready to have someone in your life? When you respond, you must remember something very important, a partner is an attribute of self love, remember that the main purpose in this life is not finding love because you are surrounded by it, but rather make everything to resonate in love and in that way, you’ll find someone capable to contribute you, because you deserve it.

I would like to propose you this 2018 to transform all those commandments based on the “I don’t have” in being thankful everyday for everything you have, remember that the more grateful we are, the more we have the chance to access to that abundance that holds together everything you see; make another of your committments to forgive all those personal or third parties offenses you’ve been dragging from long time ago, the same way, commit to yourself to accept and love yourself the way you are without letting the outside impose you rules on how you should look; be committed as well to remember yourself everyday your true nature that’s being unlimited and by being on that resonance you’ll achieve everything you propose to yourself, likewise, that within your committments be to stay with the same health you enjoy today because your body is the tool you choose to exist, and this 2018 make yourself the compromise to connect with the happiness that can only come from yourself, besides of raising awareness so in that way you can help others to connect with their own.

Remember that everyone on this planet have the most important commandment that’s living, and we have 365 opportunities to do it, thus change our vision about ourselves and of course about the others, because we are the change we want to see outside.

Please this new year don’t go to bed with commandments you just did to fulfill a tradition, do it with the compromise of going to sleep with dreams so everyday you wake up with reasons to live, remember do not connect with the things you don’t have, get closer to what you have because I can assure you that what you have today, is the essential tool to transform yourself and everything around you.

Have a happy and amazing 2018,
Shary ChavLó ∞