Have you ever wondered: why am I a woman? Maybe inside your unconscious mind it’s because you came to the world to give birth new children who will inhabit the earth because you were designed for it, or maybe it’s because you came to fight for a gender equality, or maybe, it’s because you came to satisfy the desires that were kept in the memories of your female lineage. But tell me: What’s to be a woman for your conscious mind?

Remember that we are on the earth under a previous design our parents gave us, that design, turns into an imposed plan that’s affecting our adult life; as you know, you and me were educated under a system that’s far from the independency we desire to experience today, and that, confronts us between who we were and who we want to be. 

My mother has been a very hard working woman her entire life, she took care of me and my sister the best way she could and knew, likewise, she worked and protected our home the best way she understood following the education standards she had. On the other hand, my grandmother raised 8 children on her own, at the same time she managed the house chores, while my grandfather was absent for days. What do you think is the unconscious pattern I must follow as a woman? Maybe, continue with what my grandmother inherited to my mother and my mother to me: possibly find a couple that’s going to be absent while I become the hard working woman and the perfect housewive.

To call women the weaker sex is a libel;
it’s man’s injustice to women.

Mahatma Gandhi.

I want you to know that women are not only following a familiar system we’re also carrying a generational unconscious which contains the memories of all the women who felt not heard; those women who waited for months to see her husbands come back from the battles and hunts and maybe some of those husbands didn’t return to their homes. What kind of uncoscious beliefs do you think those women generated in herselfs? Remember that the earth you inhabit hasn’t reincarnated, nevertheless, the information remains from thousands of years, the same that’s sutained with: thoughts, emotions, pain, hopelessness cries from the women who were punished and unfairly subjected, and that generational unconscious is the one we keep carrying and experiencing in our everyday lives.

Women in love: In ancient times women were designed to be the adquisition of a man; starting with being the property of her father so when they grew up that progenitor could offer them to another man that would be their new owner; that memory has remained on us since then: finding a partner who accompanies us and becomes the head of our life because the most important thing has been to satisfy this system of dependence, the one we haven’t left for fear of feeling unprotected.

Women in work: In ancient times women were forbidden to work because their duty was at home breeding the children, but when they decided to come out into the world taking a profession by the hand, then their own limitations started to participate because they felt unworthy of earning the same as men or less capable of having powerful job positions. Unfortunately, that system of devaluation is the one we keep trusting and attracting.

Women in a chauvinist home: In the ancient times women were chosen to be the food gatherers; with time, they turned into the housewives that needed to protect their home until they waited for their husband to show up; that chauvinist system was a cause we generated ourselves, because inside our colective unconsciousness that was the information we were supposed to follow as the instructions to be a better woman; a system that was based on a co-dependence in which we keep participating because our need of belonging is so strong that we keep wishing for the “possessive-provider” man.

Women in beauty: Women were considered as a reward for men, a woman had to be beatiful; an imposed beauty that made us believe we had to look like some stereotype so we could be valuable enough, of course, those concepts that are far away from being real and true, and that’s because we haven’t been able to accept and love ourselves the way we are and the way we look.

If you realized, women have been built under worthless beliefs that decrease and submit us, nevertheless, the role we keep adopting as independent women it’s built under foundations that are being destroyed in order to leave a deficient system, but in the end, we’re still attracted to it, that means, we demand an independency but still exists that need of finding the perfect owner who possess, loves and protects us.

To end up with those systems and programs, we need to reconcile with those memories we keep identifying with. I find incredible that we keep fighting for our rights, but the most important thing is to identify from which place we are doing it, because if we do it from a place of wrath and anger, what’s going to happen is that we are going to create a new chauvinist system that we’ll take us to the same place, the one we haven’t left for centuries.

Please remember that to create new societies we need to observe the system from which we came and accept that we are not longer the same, understand that we’re in a different era where we have to assume ourselves as incredible and valuable women, and if we are here is on the behalf of our mother and lineage, and this time is our opportunity to do it different, and in that way, we’ll remind our female ancestors that if we exist is to recognize ourselves as a unique, magnificent and as very special gender.

I recognize you;
Shary ChavLó ∞