Time ago I talked you about God and I told you that since we were children we had been taught to humanize this God believing s/he is going to punish us, therefore s/he would stop loving us.

In summary, God is an internal state to whom you decide to connect with; so God is you and all of us united to the same energy; God doesn’t have a gender, sexual preference neither religion and the way you decide to relate with that God will be according with the relationship you decide to have with yourself; because thanks to the way you treat, talk and love yourself you’ll create all the experiences in your life with that God by your hand.

Everyone connects with the God existing in their beliefs; a lacking, punisher, unfair, absent or abundant being, because God is a concept that’s born in our mind; therefore, from there we create it and by consequence, manifest.

Every experience we live is the attraction of our thoughts because everything we experience had place in our mind’s factory, how is this possible? All in the Universe is mind that’s why our creative source is determined by the limits of our imagination, this means we’re creating from the moment a thought lands in our mind and if it turns up repetitive, we’ll materialize it in the reality that’ll turn into our truth.

A wise man once said: “Watch your thoughts, they become words; watch your words, they become actions, watch your actions, they become habits, watch your habits, they become your character; watch your character, it becomes your destiny”. All of us are manifested unity, this means, all that you are is because that’s what you decided to be because everything you think, say and do is related to your own conscious state.

That God or Universe has a vibration that’s in the same frecuency as love, forgiveness, peace, abundance and happiness and as long as we are connected with that energy, our vibration resembles to it; but if our words, which are toughts with sound, have a different harmonic vibration; that Universe will help you manifest what you say because everything you pronounce has a conscious or unconscious rhythm; that’s called intention.

Have in mind that we’re lead by an unconscious that normally directs our behavior, because there’s where our most deep beliefs reside; the same that’ll determine our life; until we make consciousness of our patterns we’ll stop creating experiences from that unconscious.

I want you to know that the words we daily use are fundamental keys to stablish or to break your relationships; because in the same way your words can bless, they can curse and in the same way your words can heal, they can hurt.

Has it happened to you that when you are upset and say things you didn’t want to, you justify yourself saying that you said those things without thinking? That’s one of the greatest lies we tell ourselves to take away the remorse; remember that our mind was created to send us thousands of thoughts and when we hide behind our words we loose every sense of responsability; everything we say is because deep inside we think and feel it; because is through our words that we project our darkest and the most luminous part of ourselves.

There are two families in the world, the ones that are dysfunctional and the ones that don’t know they’re dysfunctional; because in all of them there exist beliefs that limit us and condition our freedom; when we listened to our parents say: “I don’t have”, “you’re going to fall”, “don’t cry”, “you have to obey” etc., those words remained printed in our unconscious next to the relationship our parents decided to have when we were growing up; so, the way they talked to each other and the way they talked to you, that’s the way you’ll talk to the world.

When we have a couple and there are conflicts; our ego rushes to win the place of the best offender because in its mind believes that everyone is against it; that’s why, when we’re in a fight our ego looks for the weaknesses in the other and makes sure to put them on the table and it makes you believe, the more hurtful you are with what you say, the more protected you’ll be from the other, thus, you’ll win. Everything you say and the other as well has a hidden intention and you must know that even though that situation pass, none of those words will be vanished from your memory because both of you are playing to be the container of each other’s words and continually justify those words for fear of recognizing that maybe there are no reasons left to stay together.

Every word you say is a decree and if your daily words are based on; “it’s imposible”, “I don’t believe”, “I don’t want to”, “that doesn’t exist”, “I don’t know”, from that intention of denial you’ll manifest all your life because not only you’re thinking, feeling and saying based on that vibration, you are also creating from that same place.

If you’re in a relationship and constantly there’s an exchange of destructive words, before you answer; breath, listen and observe what of the words the other’s saying, you think is true, because if that person talks to you with insults and you see it normal, it’s because deep inside you’re used to talk yourself like that, and if nothing you hear hits the nail for you; then, those words speak more about the other than from you; if this is happening, none of you is understanding the impact that your words have; because your words are the ones in charge of the construction or destruction of your relationship

Everything we say is fundamental for our growth and if we are used to talk ourselves in derogatory ways, we’ll find people in our path who will treat us the same, in that way, we’ll convince that everything we think about ourselves is true; have in mind that everyday thousands of thoughts get to you and you must know which of them you’ll choose to sow in your mind and if you keep sowing judgements, criticism, hate, resentment, those are going to be the decrees you’ll materilize; but if you decide to vibrate in positive tuning with yourself, everything you think, feel, say and do will be in balance, an that will allow yourself to manifest everything you want from your natural state that is abundance.

With love;
Shary ChavLó