I’ve always asked myself why are we living situations or come across with certain people in our life, the curious part, is that those people or situations are alike or repeated.

As human beings we live in a counscious way, we know when to wake up because we have an alarm clock that indicates us when is time to get up, we eat because our system let us know when is time to eat, we go to work because we need to earn our daily bread and come back home after a hard routine to finally rest… but there’s something that keeps alive and in silence within us, and without even notice operates most of the time, something that’s called unconscious.

The unconscious is involuntary from our conscious state, because the uncounscious has all the information about our life’s history, and of course, our family’s history as well.

On my writings I’ve told you we are social beings and came to this earth to integrate ourselves into a system to which we pretend to be faithful so we don’t feel excluded and much less, alone.

Remember when I talked you about our family tree? I told you that everything in this life is a causality of facts, because there can’t be a coincidence without any cause and effect, and our unconscious is the cause of those meetings that generate an effect in our reality.

We don’t choose others at random we meet
with those that are already in our unconscious.

Sigmund Freud.

We need to understand that the unconscious keeps the information to protect us and in turn, brings us situations driven by it so we can be brave enough to recognize and accept them and in that way, transform them.

The unconscious repeats because its inocence is so grand that it doesn’t determine if the years have passed, if we are adults or if we are old, if we are woman or man, it doesn’t judge, just repeats what it learned and in a blindingly and honestly way looks for it.

Have in mind we are part of a universal consciousness, an awareness that creates and transforms everything, an abundant and ulimited consciousness, nonetheless, as human beings we live in a constant separation of everything and believe that loneliness is because we have bad luck, lacking is thanks to fate, and lovelessness is because we’re are not worthy enough, and no, that’s part of a projection of your mind and of a formula that has worked to the world so history can be written.

Henceforth let’s be responsible enough to take charge of our thoughts, feelings and actions and instead of feeling small as the good victims we are blaming the ungrateful fate, let’s ask to ourselves: What am I doing to attract this situation?, How am I reacting to what others say or do?, What am I attracting or believing so all my couples are alike?, Why have I decided to choose those situations over and over again?, Which are my projections that I feel the others don’t love me? Before answering yourself please stop blaming the outside because the answer it’s not there, outside is just the manifestation of our inward state, a place that you’ve left oblivion because you haven’t given yourself the permission to look at it.

Remember that the unconscious is very clever and will never make you notice in a counscious way why are you living what you are living today. You, as a good life’s student know how to defend yourself pointing what’s out there but believe me, in all those stories and experiences you’ve had the first role and the second one, the best of all, is that the final outcome is up to you.

Like I always say, just become your own observer and observe all those programs that operate on you in a hipnotic way, and when you find them, don’t judge them, they have defended you so you can live safe while you are here, the only thing you need is look at them with compassion and understand that those were programs that don’t belong to you anymore, and today, it’s your turn to transcend and let them go.

All my respect for you,
Shary ChavLó ∞