One of the things we came to experience, is love in all it’s facets: family, friends, couple, ourselves and although it’s everywhere and is with us all the time, love becomes the absence we need to fulfill the most.

When we love from the being, we do it from a place of freedom, certainty, union, construction, compassion, beauty, and we do it from a state of consciousness knowing that love is, it doesn’t need any justifications to be created or felt.

When we love from the ego, we do it from the need to be with someone, the need of happiness, searching perfection and justifying the feeling, putting up the weight on love just to feel corresponded.

A coward is incapable of exhibiting love;
it is the prerogative of the brave

Mahatma Gandhi.

Something I’ve realized is that human beings are afraid to love and be loved because we relate love to pain, absence, suffering, sadness, weakness, those are insecurities that could come from a hurt ego that needed to satisfy some voids that started as giantic expectations and left broken hopes as a result. That’s when pain overcomes love.

Everyone experience love in both versions, but like I’ve always said, it’s not better to love from the ego or from the being, I assure you that doing it from the being will bring you growing experiences, while loving from the ego, will leave you small.

Many believe that love runs down, but it’s a mistake, because love is the energy that conforms the Universe and holds it together, therefore it can’t be destroyed because is always trascending.

Like I once said, love is the most primary food of our being and in my opinion, it’s survival relies on looking for it, the purpose is to understand from where we’re looking it for: If you do it from the need, you’ll always feel needed, if you look it from certainty, you’ll always be free, if you do it from company, loneliness will be your worst enemy, if you do it from the lack of something, nothing will fulfill you, if you do it from union there’ll always be a continous contribution, because that’s what love does, it contributes, not complements.

Love doesn’t have the need to change something, because when it knows it is, everything else comes in addition. I’ve always believed that love is very intelligent and when it’s not used it goes away without blaming or demanding anything.

I would like to tell you that love isn’t related to falling in love or to the illusory image we create about it, it’s not the romanticism caused by a lover; love remains within you and me, in everyone else and we see it reflected outside, in others, in the universe and in that way, we dare to live it.

Love is an act of will that lives in our being and it’s an everyday conviction, just remember that it never dies, it transforms in whatever you decide. Please allow yourself to experience it wisely and do it freely and unconditionally; you have my word; if you feel it and give it in that way, love will return to you multiplied.

My love for you,
Shary ChavLó.