I’ve talked you a lot about ego and the masks it uses to torment us: fear, anxiety, uncertainty, guilt, anger, indifference; justifying everything with judgment.

Judgment is the father of the ego’s labels that qualifies the experiences that are part of a human’s life; like I’ve said a couple times, we need an ego to come to the world, because we came to experience emotions, relationships, feelings, life, etc.

See it like this, we need judgment to determine what we like and what we don’t, what is right and what is wrong, what makes us happy and what finishes off with that happiness.

The complicated part begins when judgment is against others and of course against ourselves. I’ve always believed we are our worst enemies and the cruelest executioners and if we judge us of course we will judge others.

Everything you judge about others, is just a
projection of what you haven’t solved of yourself.

Buddha

I divide judgment in two versions: The wise judgment that assists us in describing the pleasurable circumstances and lead us to what we truly desire with the previous identification of what causes our joy.

Harmful judgment that leave us in a mental cage which only allows us to see the convenient and not the real thing, it uses labels bathed in hate, creating a hurtful and qualifying image of others that’s usually the result of what we don’t see and accept within us.

There is a thin line between both judgments, the way you can distinguish them, is that wise judgment only looks at experience as an opportunity for growth and learning so it doesn’t happen again, leaving other people out of our story. Harmful judgment, sees the others as the enemies and begins to identify them as bad, toxic, envious, putting a comfortable and beneficial label that makes us believe everyone’s against us and in defense we acquire the role of misunderstood victims.

When I told you about the universe, God, energy, love, light, etc. I told you that for him, there’s no judgment because everything’s neutral and therefore with the infinite love he has for you, never qualifies what you do, say, or the actions you take as right or wrong. Keep in mind that the only thing he sees in you are the messages you send to it, the universe is not carrying a notebook pointing out the names of those you imprisoned with your final judgments, because he’s so focused on you that literally understands everything you say, feel and act towards others is only what you want to see in you, and in that way he’ll give you the facts that build the life you’re living.

Understand that you were not responsible for the judicious programs you’ve been taught, but today is in your hands to change it, I only ask you to be present and start listening without any judgment everything that comes to your mind and in that way bless it and let it go; stay present when you listen to people talking about others and observe the harmful image they often need to see, and without judgment, understand that what they see in others represents their inner truth; in the end, everyone has their own wounds and defends them the way they find possible

I always say, let’s be able to see beyond everything because in that way we’ll eliminate the malicious judgment and begin to see the positive in all. Today, the world is going through a rather difficult transition, and you and me are part of those seeds that we plant for a transitory change; the intelligence is in understanding if we are choosing to sow with judgment or with wisdom.

I’m walking beside you.
Shary ChavLó.