I gave much thought about talking of this matter for the constant cons it has; because we believe that talking about the abortion is the same as killing a human who’s ready to incarnate in life.

During gestation, every month is a fundamental key for the development of the fetus, the first three months are of high risk because it’s when the embryo sets in the woman’s uterus, on this stage several threats of abortion can occur and this is the stage recommended to induce it by decision; this is possible because the fetus is not formed yet; which means that it lacks from emotions, thoughts and most of all, consciousness; remember that consciousness connects us with life and thanks to it we know ourselves existent.

Some countries consider the abortion as a right and others don’t because it’s considered aggravated homicide; it’s important to mention when we talk about homicide, that this means a life was taken away without permission; but an enbryo remains like a developing cell and although its physical heart keeps beating doesn’t mean that is alive.

Does the fetus has a soul? Remember that human beings are created with a biological information which we repeat in the shape of patterns and when two people find each other it’s because these programs attract each other; in that way the egg and the sperm fertilize because they complement each other and when the soul decides to materilize through a physical body it will look for the parents that will provide those learnings that has to be transcended in life; the choice of incarnating will be known by the soul from the third month until the fetus is attached to the uterus and will decide if it stays in the earthly world or not, if it decides to stay, the soul will definitely attach until the seventh month of gestation in the body that has chosen.

We have been lead to believe the abortion is bad because we cross it out like a crime accused by God, remember that God is an energy who doesn’t live through a judgment, judgments only live in our mind originated by our own beliefs made perceptions; the opinions refering to abortion come from our positioning of what we believe is correct and what’s not. 

This approach that I’m trying to give you, has nothing to do with a positioning based on my judgment, nor I question a woman’s decisions; I’m not in favour or against abortion; I’m in favour of an integral, loving, peaceful and spiritual life; I’m in favour of a life where parents teach their children to believe in themselves; I’m in favour that schools change their educational system so the children have the enthusiasm to learn because they want to, not because it’s an obligation; thus, can discover their gifts, talents and capacities; I’m in favour of guiding the parents with free talks to make consciousness about their beliefs, patterns and dysfunctions so they don’t inherit them to the next generations that are destinated to the evolution of the earth; I’m in favour on emotionally guiding the “moms to be” to talk about what represents for them to be a mother so in the future her son or daughter doesn’t have the need to attempt against his/her life thanks to the deep rejectment s/he felt from her; I’m in favour of a loving childhood without any parents who put in their children’s mind their frustrations or give them an education designed by hits because those are the children who will become adults, and maybe, adults who will transform into broken people embraced by their wounded children, because that kind of people will materilize their world according to the learnings they lived and understood.

If you agree with abortion as long as the woman was raped then ask yourself: which was the woman’s program that perfectly fitted with the agressor’s program and chose him as the father of her child?

If you are agree with abortion because the “baby” comes with a disability then ask yourself: why not to have it? Maybe because s/he won’t fit into the conditioning of beauty to be accepted by the demanding collective, even though the most important thing is the learning the soul needs to evolve, regardless of the body it chooses; therefore, the soul doesn’t suffer in that body but the parents, who won’t know how to deal with the rejectment they’ll feel through the critics.

If you are against of abortion when a woman gets pregnant by mistake then maybe you ask: why she didn’t use a condom? Because for the collective, women are the guilty ones so they have to be responsible even though they reject and hate the baby in all the possible ways.

We position in this opinions because human beings are used to condemn the cause and from there, determine if that action is good or wrong; nevertheless, just a few dare to deepen in the story of the person; I want to tell you that’s not the action what we must judge and point as the sin, but observe the origin so in that way we can connect with empathy and accept that this situation is not part of our personal processes but its the learning of a third partie.

“A boy was adopted by a marriage after he was born, both parents died time after, this fact led this child to become an orphan again, how do you think his childhood was if his biological mother rejected him since her pregnancy? A mother who decided to have him but put him in adoption, possibly he had a childhood with a huge lack of love and affection; the name of this kid is Nikolas Jacob Cruz author of the shooting at the Douglas high school in Parkland Florida killing 17 people and hurting 14 more; nothing justifies his action, but he also had a story and maybe that’ll help us to understand the cause”.

“It’s 10 at night in the supermarket, there are two boys who look like orphans and one of them asks for money and the other for something to eat, when a woman bought them cereal and some milk, they took it to their mother who was waiting for them, later they return to the store to do the same act as many times as necessary; this fact will anchor the boys to the conditioning where they believe things only can come when they take away from others, what kind of pathologies do you think they’ll develop in their adult life?, why their parents don’t teach them to work in a worthy way? Because both of them have the same lacking system; therefore, they can’t teach them something they don’t know”.

“A boy was physical and emotionally abused by his father and constantly hit him until he made things perfectly, his father often insulted him for the size of his nose; this kid turned into Michael Jackson, a very succesful man but someone who lived constantly worried by his appeareance to the point of taking him to the surgery room more than 25 times to intervene the size of his nose, maybe with an unconscious need to be finally accepted by his father; for many people he was the king of pop but maybe his real fight in life was struggling with the lack of self-love and self-acceptance”.

If you realize, all those stories have something in common, the rejectment they felt on the part of a parent, and this fact, can mark a person’s life so deeply that prevents him/her from choosing experiences based on love, a state that s/he hardly knows, this makes, this person shows the world how much s/he suffers, maybe none of this examples had the option of abortion but they had a loveless life and a life without love, is not life at all.

I understand that nobody is prepared to be an excellent parent, that will be known with the practice but if being a parent is condemning a child with the conditionings of the same system we have lived in, then, we’re commiting the same act that is interrupting the life of a soul that’s comming to be free.

If you’re pregnant and you need to make a decision I want you to know that I’m nobody to judge you, just invite yourself to understand why you chose to get pregnant in this moment and from that person, because if it was like that, its because there’s a learning you need to see, understand and forgive, and when you do it, then you’ll take a conscious decision not based on the fear that’s preventing you to wake up; in the end, we’re talking of a cell that will turn into a person and its presence will impact on the planet we live in.

We all desire a free world, but for that to happen is urgent to take away the bandages that are blinding us; have in mind there are decisions out of our control because we’re talking about a body that’s not yours nor mine; therefore, what we can do is respect the choices of others; because that freedom will be achieved when there’s consciousness, one that’s not born in the fetus but in the environment it gets born, grows up and prevails.

You own yourself;
Shary ChavLó ∞